http://bannon.com/2009/12/30/ego-identity-and-sexuality/ Intelligent information, ideas and insights about the adventurous side of sex and relationships. Thu, 26 Aug 2010 23:00:13 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 http://bannon.com/2009/12/30/ego-identity-and-sexuality/comment-page-1/#comment-627 Race Bannon Tue, 09 Feb 2010 23:14:43 +0000 http://bannon.com/?p=301#comment-627 Gary, I agree completely. Gary, I agree completely.

]]> http://bannon.com/2009/12/30/ego-identity-and-sexuality/comment-page-1/#comment-626 Gary Rhoades Tue, 09 Feb 2010 22:14:21 +0000 http://bannon.com/?p=301#comment-626 I think this is the strength of the Leather community. The labels can and do evolve and shift over time and people are continuing to explore the limits of expression - and there is no judgment about the labels. For most of the gay community, it's about being a top with a big dick and cumming. We each only know what we know and we need others so we see different examples of being and feeling and expressing. People can look at the surface of leathersex and see the toys and the many situations in which we express ourselves but ultimately - if done correctly - I look at it and see everything as a kind of facilitation metaphor to venture more deeply into the unexplored areas of ourselves - sexual and otherwise. When you get that heart to heart and mind to mind connection you can both feel safe enough to go farther in that exploration. I think this is the strength of the Leather community. The labels can and do evolve and shift over time and people are continuing to explore the limits of expression – and there is no judgment about the labels. For most of the gay community, it’s about being a top with a big dick and cumming.
We each only know what we know and we need others so we see different examples of being and feeling and expressing.
People can look at the surface of leathersex and see the toys and the many situations in which we express ourselves but ultimately – if done correctly – I look at it and see everything as a kind of facilitation metaphor to venture more deeply into the unexplored areas of ourselves – sexual and otherwise. When you get that heart to heart and mind to mind connection you can both feel safe enough to go farther in that exploration.

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